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devastatedjn
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i have no one to talk to

06/04/12 12:42 PM

I have been with my husband for 28 years (dated for six, married for 22). We were high school sweethearts and built a beautiful life together. Over the past year, he grew more and more distant, got on an exercise kick, lost a ton of weight, started to stay out very late, working longer hours and pulled away. Whenever I would ask him if there was something going on he would deny it. On February 13th, his phone alarm wouldn't stop going off so as I tried to shut it, I saw a text that he had sent to a young girl he works with (10 years our junior) saying that he misses her and loves her. I confronted him. He denies anything other than a good friendship with her but our life has been unraveling since. He says that he just isn't happy anymore, that he doesn't know what he wants to do with his life from this point forward, that he loves me, but he hasn't been happy in a long time. Since that day, we have had ups and downs...I have started to see a psychiatrist and began taking anti-depressants. We try to act 'as if' things can be normal, but they aren't. I feel like I am walking on eggshells...like i am auditioning for his love...like he holds all the power and cards. I'm sure he would have left me by now if it weren't for our kids and his not wanting to disrupt their lives. But i honestly don't know how to move forward. i don't want to divorce him. but living in limbo like this is slowly killing me. please help me.

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i have no one to talk to	devastatedjn	06/04/12 12:42 PM
Re: i have no one to talk to	BethB	07/01/12 09:47 AM
Re: i have no one to talk to	Debi	06/15/12 02:47 PM
Re: i have no one to talk to	Anything4Love	12/11/12 06:13 PM
Re: i have no one to talk to	episkopos	08/20/12 11:28 PM
Re: i have no one to talk to	1234km	12/08/12 01:14 PM
Re: i have no one to talk to	MEBlack	06/23/12 03:38 PM
Re: i have no one to talk to	Renny	06/04/12 10:39 PM
Re: i have no one to talk to	finz	06/04/12 10:57 PM
Re: i have no one to talk to	devastatedjn	06/05/12 09:50 AM
Re: i have no one to talk to	Annie7676	06/05/12 04:16 PM
Re: i have no one to talk to	finz	06/06/12 08:53 PM
Re: i have no one to talk to	devastatedjn	06/07/12 12:59 PM
Re: i have no one to talk to	Annie7676	06/09/12 06:22 AM
Re: i have no one to talk to	finz	06/07/12 05:17 PM

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