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      06/06/12 10:02 AM

I have a cousin by marriage who fell into some trouble a couple years ago and is out on parole and my hubby wants to allow him to come here and park his motor-home on our property to stay for a while. I do not necessarily agree.

My hubby has been friends with him since they were in junior high and I have known the man for about 25 years. He is still married to my cousin but they are divorcing because of the trouble he got into and she almost went down with him (they were married 23 years). He became a drug dealer, which I still cannot figure it out for the life of me why - I never saw that happening in a million years and he was never the type to take part in something like that.

I really think it is a bad idea but also want him to be able to start a new life - just not here. My cousin is so embarrassed and humiliated that she hasn't spoken to any of the family or friends for two years. He hadn't worked for five years before this happened due to physical injuries and she is/was a well respected member of society - she is an assistant principle at a school - she was cleared of all wrong doing since she had no idea what he was doing when she was at work. I don't know if I totally believe she knew nothing given it was going on in her own home but I wasn't there and she isn't the type to do that but then again neither was he...

I am curious as to what others think? Would you give him a chance? I do know he learned his lesson and he did spend two years in prison and now is on parole for 27 months and has 20 months left.

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