Divorce Source: Reconcilliation

Encyclopedia

Checklists

Tools

Downloads

Bookstore

Start Your Divorce Today - Premium Divorce Online

You are not logged in. [Login]
NEW USER Registration

DS Home · Community Forums · All Forums/Msg. Centers
NEW USER Registration · Search Community Forums · Help

Divorce Source Community Forums >> General Divorce Issues

MamaKitty
Pooh-Bah

Reged: 01/30/06
Posts: 1632
Loc: California

Reconcilliation

03/21/06 02:09 PM

I'd like to hear anyone's story who had a spouse who wanted to reconcile after all the divorce machinery was cranking away.

The BUMD has been pushing for dropping the divorce (again), like he did last time, I think because the money aspects are becoming obvious. He did deposit some money today, for which I am grateful, but it's not enough to pay even one months bills, and certainly not enough to pay what we're behind on from since the first of the year. Considering he gets paid every 3 months, I know that after I take care of the past due on the mortgage and PGE, I'll be back at zero, still have unpaid bills, and will not be getting anything more for 3 months. I think he knows what he's deposited isn't going to pull us through, and is starting to panic as usual....after he's put us in this position again. Based on how much he makes, any other people would be able to make it just fine, but he can't handle money, and I've no doubt we'll both be financially ruined by divorcing. However, I've stayed in the marriage for years just to keep that from happening, and I don't want to anymore. I don't even know how he could think I'd consider it, based on the things he's said and done, and the knowlege that it will continue... anyway, he's started emailing again about it, saying this is going to wreck us, and the lawyers are getting rich already while we're staggering, and wants to 'work something out'.

Any stories about how your ex wanted to work it out, and how you dealt with going through with the divorce anyway?

c

Post Extras

Entire topic
Subject	Posted by	Posted on
Reconcilliation	MamaKitty	03/21/06 02:09 PM
Re: Reconcilliation	stacey30	03/22/06 09:52 PM
Re: Reconcilliation	getnadivorce	03/23/06 05:13 AM
Not so fast...	almostheaven	03/23/06 11:50 AM
Re: Not so fast...	MamaKitty	03/23/06 03:12 PM
Re: Reconcilliation	jds	03/23/06 11:40 AM
Re: Reconcilliation	JPruitt	03/23/06 10:53 AM
Re: Reconcilliation	JPruitt	03/22/06 10:36 AM
Re: Reconcilliation	MamaKitty	03/22/06 12:24 PM
Not here...	almostheaven	03/22/06 04:16 PM
Re: Reconcilliation	JPruitt	03/22/06 12:32 PM
Re: Reconcilliation	Rebecca5	03/22/06 12:31 PM
Re: Reconcilliation	Buckeye	03/21/06 02:24 PM
Re: Reconcilliation	MamaKitty	03/21/06 02:51 PM
Re: Reconcilliation	Buckeye	03/21/06 03:18 PM
Re: Reconcilliation	rocketgirl	03/21/06 03:10 PM
Re: Reconcilliation	MamaKitty	03/21/06 03:22 PM
Re: Reconcilliation	rocketgirl	03/21/06 03:30 PM
Re: Reconcilliation	MamaKitty	03/21/06 04:26 PM

Extra information

0 registered and 7 anonymous users are browsing this forum.

Moderator:

Forum Permissions
      You cannot start new topics
      You cannot reply to topics
      HTML is disabled
      UBBCode is enabled

Rating:
Thread views: 4708

Jump to

Divorce Source Home

UBB.threads™ 6.5.1.1

Resources & Tools

	Start Your Divorce Several Options to Get Started Today.		Online Divorce Tools Keeping it Simple to Get the Job Done.
	Download Center Instantly Download Books, Guides & Forms.		Discount Books Over 100 of the Best Divorce & Custody Books.
	Negotiate Online Settle your Divorce and Save.		Custody Scheduling Make Sure You Document Everything.

Easily Connect With a Lawyer or Mediator

Have Divorce Professionals from Your Area Contact You!