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#120576 - 07/04/06 06:24 AM A preacher was telling a small group... [Re: nrvouswrk]
gr8Dad Offline
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...of men that the bible covers EVERY aspect of life. One of the men asked, jokingly, about PMS. The preacher replied, "Here" and he flips open the book, finds a page ad says, "...And Mary rode Joseph's ass all the way to Bethlahem..."
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Why give a "senior" discount, they have had plenty of time to raise the money...

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#120577 - 07/04/06 06:26 AM Re: Well, after reading your drivel... [Re: katiefedup]
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No that was the Outlaw's...

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#120578 - 07/04/06 06:29 AM Re: To Nrvouswrk [Re: Gecko]
nrvouswrk Offline
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Not in Orange County. The child support is only set up through the CSE if you call and request the application. It is not automatically set up with them. The CP opens the case themselves.

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#120579 - 07/04/06 06:33 AM Re: A preacher was telling a small group... [Re: gr8Dad]
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LOL!!!!

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#120580 - 07/04/06 06:34 AM Re: To Nrvouswrk [Re: nrvouswrk]
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Registered: 06/02/04
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Loc: Third rock from the sun
In Arizona...wage withholding is mandatory unless the Judge allows for direct pay upon the agreement of BOTH parties.

In Oregon...unless the Judge allows for direct pay upon the agreement of BOTH parties...ALL payments go through CSE, even if there is no "wage withholding" order. The CP can at any time, request that CSE do a wage withholding...NCP doesn't have to have "arrears".
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#120581 - 07/04/06 09:53 AM Re: Well, after reading your drivel... [Re: nrvouswrk]
Buckeye Offline
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Registered: 12/08/05
Posts: 7873
Loc: OH
$1,500 cars - well, that would be me with at least one of my cars. An uninsured motorist just hit it in the side, $2,500 worth of damage, I don't even know what the value of the car is but I know it isn't $2,500 since it is 11 years old. We buy them new and drive them into the ground. When we "trade" them in, we get $200 because we have good tires.

If the car is running good, I don't need a new one.

I also have a 29 year old VW camper that we go all over the country in. It is a matter of pride to keep it up and running.

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#120582 - 07/04/06 10:11 AM Re: A preacher was telling a small group... [Re: nrvouswrk]
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One other thing, there are all kinds of resources available for the CP when the NCP doesn't pay. The state gets involved, the Federal government gets involved by means of a tax snatch.

But, the NCP doesn't have any one to help them when the CP doesn't allow visitation. Even the police won't do anything.

So, don't even go there by saying that the courts and laws are not biased. I'm not saying they are biased regarding female/males but they are certainly biased regarding CP/NCP.

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#120583 - 07/04/06 11:11 AM Re: To Nrvouswrk [Re: nrvouswrk]
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That's how it works here. Ex was ordered to pay through the state but never did, it wasn't until I called to set up an account with CSE that they actually enforced it.

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#120584 - 07/04/06 11:17 AM Re: To Nrvouswrk [Re: Dee78]
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In my state, all CS money has to be paid through the state - either as garnishment or voluntary payments.

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#120585 - 07/04/06 11:32 AM Re: To Nrvouswrk [Re: Buckeye]
Dee78 Offline
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Yeah, that's what they say. It has to be ordered to be paid through the state but if it isn't and neither party brings it to anyone's attention (or the CP isn't on any assistance), then it doesn't actually get enforced. We went for 1 1/2 years with him just paying me directly, when I filed I had to file an affidavit of direct pay.

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