Ok, obviously I'm having some Senior Moments regarding this poster's situation. :)
The guy told you the baby wasn't his and he wanted nothing to do with you. Right so far?
Regardless of the above, you fear that he will demand a DNA test to determine paternity. If I'm right on this, WHY do you think he will want a paternity test on a kid he has already denied?
Sorry to be so thick, but I don't get the problem. Hasn't the guy already indicated he doesn't want to be involved?
On the flip side, if he DOES want to acknowledge the kid if it's his, what's so bad about getting some financial and emotional help? Is he a real pr1ck or something?
**** I'm not a survivor, I'm a thriver!! ****