It's looking like our divorce will become real and for me, it's a shocker... Anyway living in Missouri and being a guy, whats the chances of getting our children (13, 5, 2)? My soon to be ex-wife is wanting this divorce and after 1 counseling session is ready to give up after 17 + yrs of marriage. She was, at one time my best friend, but not anymore. We are both professionals in our field. I have evidence (e-mails, pics, cell phone bills, etc) that will show her affair with another man. There is no abuse on her part towards the children. Since I have found out about her affair, she has become a consent liar towards me and the children. Does anyone know if I have a chance for full custody of the kids?