My husband and I have been separated since June 2008, he is active duty army. He is home on his two week leave from Iraq and is planning on filing for a divorce in Missouri. He is stationed at Fort Riley, KS when normally home. He is still an Iowa resident and pays Iowa taxes. Will he be able to file in Missouri? Or will he need to file in Iowa? Also he wants to get a divorce without getting a custody agreement for our 2 year old daughter, is this the smart thing to do?