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#736509 - 11/30/11 04:03 AM please help
lyazelver Offline

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Registered: 11/30/11
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ok heres my situation. im 21 and legally married for 2 years. ive been with my husband for 6. we have a 3 year old son. he works out of state, and has been gone since august of 2010, coming home for a couple days for the holidays. i was having an affair for the last 6 months. the "other guy" sent explicit pictures and videos , and well,my husband found out. he wants a divorce, which i am not willing to sign. the problem is, the wants to take full custody of our son. he has choked me and physically thrown me around, but i never filed charges. will he be able to take full custody with only the evidence of the pictures? or do i stand a chance in court because he is always gone and is abusive, and not to mention has gone back on drugs. so please all the help is greatly appreciated!

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#736510 - 11/30/11 04:10 AM Re: please help [Re: lyazelver]
lyazelver Offline

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im sorry, i meant i am willing to sign divorce.

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#736511 - 11/30/11 04:56 AM Re: please help [Re: lyazelver]
Renny Offline

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The affair should have no effect on custody. Next time he abuses you, call 911. If the case goes into litigation, ask for a psych evaluation and drug testing, and have a GAL appointed.

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#736512 - 11/30/11 04:34 PM Re: please help [Re: Renny]
gr8Dad Offline
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Why would a drug test be warranted?
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Why give a "senior" discount, they have had plenty of time to raise the money...

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#736513 - 11/30/11 11:38 PM Re: please help [Re: gr8Dad]
Renny Offline

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She said he was back on drugs. I assume she means hard drugs and has evidence to back it up. If not, the judge will deny the request.

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#736514 - 12/02/11 04:12 AM Re: please help [Re: Renny]
gr8Dad Offline
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I love how the [censored] who caused the divorce gets to make the innocent party jump through hoops.
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Why give a "senior" discount, they have had plenty of time to raise the money...

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#736515 - 12/03/11 02:05 AM Re: please help [Re: gr8Dad]
Renny Offline

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If the husband posts here we will give him the best advice we can too.

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