My husband blindsided me yesterday by 1 - saying he wanted time to figure out what he wants (if he wants to remain married) and 2 - he's been texting another girl nonstop for a week (i found out by the phone bill). Yeah, at least it's only been a week but even a day is too long. He said she's just a friend and they haven't done anything. However he's still constantly texting her, they have met in person, he didn't tell her he's married. And he doesn't wear his ring around her. If I so much as talked to a coworker at work he'd flip out and think I was sleeping with him. I've always been faithful. He said he doesn't blame me he just hasn't been himself in a long time (we haven't even been married 2 years!). Does the feeling of betrayal ever go away? :(

"Does the feeling of betrayal ever go away? "/quote

Not without a lot of time, reflection, maybe therapy and a new love interest for yourself. It's tough. But you will survive.