Women always want to keep the reality of divorce quiet from kids. This is because Divorce usually hurts men far more than women. It is important for the kids to know you hate their mom, they will learn it someday anyway, why not now ?
It is SUPREMELY IMPORTANT for the kids to know how the finances of Divorce work, especially if you have male children....You want them to avoid the same trap.
Women of course want all males to fall into the marriage slavery trap. Women can leave a marriage anytime theY want, NO ONE EVER TAKES THEIR CHILDREN AWAY ! Women get money they did not earn in divorce, that is why it is sooo popular.
"Anything free is worth what you pay for it..."
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