I am very stressed out and feel so alone. I am a 31 year old woman and have been with my husband for 12 years and married for 3. We have been separated for 3 months. I am ready for a divorce but I am having such a problem making the decision. I feel tired and unhappy. Our relationship has gone through many ups and downs, and we swept a lot of our issues under the rug for years. I feel that every strain that a marriage could have is what I'm experiencing: lack of intamcy, financial, and time. I'm tired of people telling me to consider counseling as the thought of it aggitates me. My husband is a wonderful person, but I have fallen out of love with him. It's difficult for me to consider working it out. I feel like I have tried to talk about things with my husband for many years, and he has ignored a lot of my needs. I guess I'm looking for someone who has experienced a similar situation so I don't feel alone anymore.