Last time I heard from my lawyer was in 2010. He stated that The QDRO has been sent to my ex's employer for validation and when that comes back we can take it to court for contempt. He also said I really don't need to worry about it until my ex retires and that it takes awhile for my ex's employer to review it. I tried to contact him several times and he has not responded He was a great lawyer and because of that the divorce went smooth. Is there anything I can do or should do