My girlfriend has major issue going on with her ex. Among many other things, she recently found out that her ex husband showers with her 5 year old daughter and 7 year old son all at the same time. Obviously knowing his strange sexual history and the abuse he endured as a child she is extremely worried about this but DCFS says there is no reason to get involved unless the kids are saying they have been touched. We want to prevent all that!!! Any further help ideas would be great!