You know, you WONDER why I comment on your posts, here is a PERFECT example:
"He sounds like just the sort of father that would ask for complete custody of the kids -- NOT because he really WANTS them, but to hurt you in the worst possible way and/or control you still."
Now, from the ORIGINAL poster, ALL you know about this guy is the following:
-He is a veteran, that is disabled
-He would (she thinks) be ANGRY if she took off with the kids (as would ANY parent)
That is IT. Yet you have DECIDED that he would USE the kids to HURT her. So, tell me, WHAT evidence did you use to come to that conclusion?
What we have here is a woman who is looking to SUBMARINE the guy, hit him BROADSIDE with divorce papers, and YOU want to HELP her.
Why give a "senior" discount, they have had plenty of time to raise the money...