I've been paying support for 10 years now. I know my ex is living with her boyfriend, which makes no difference in Cal. However, I was told she has either re-married or is planning to soon. How do I get proof? What is the best method? A P.I. told me they would need Thousands to do the research, and that they cant access marriage records themselves. She is VERY tight on Social Media so I dont expect to find anything out there. Family will not be any help. She has violated every court order, but the court does nothing. The Gavron warning told her it ends when she get remarried, but a court order never made any difference to her in the past, and the courts will only prosecute me if I dont pay her. They wont check up on her nor penalize her for not coming clean on things. My attorney said to get the P.I. but after talking to him, I dont see that being any help. What can I do?