I have been on a visitation schedule with my daughter, ordered by the court way back in 2007. Wife and I officially divorced in 2009. My daughter is sixteen now. She has a boyfriend. I haven't been permitted to meet this boyfriend as my daughter "deems it unnecessary" in the wisdom of her years, and her mother supports that position. The boyfriend, also sixteen, is your average hormone driven high school boy. I call him "the weasel."
So what? Well, it turns out that mom took a keen interest in dating the weasel's father. Right about the time my ex said SHE would deliver and pick up my daughter each weekend per visitation schedule, the four of them decided they were going to play house together at the weasel's father's residence, leaving our as yet undivided marital residence unoccupied. No wonder she didn't want me showing up to pick up my daughter. As I found out first hand, there was no one there to answer the door.
And then, the bombshell: my ex MARRIED my daughter's boyfriend's FATHER. Does that mean my daughter is "dating" (even at sixteen, we ALL know what THAT means) her step-brother? I mean, while mommy and daddy are in bed, just what do you imagine the kids are up to?
The whole thing is pretty twisted, the way I see it. There are issues of poor parenting going on here, issues of safety of my daughter left alone in the company of a horny little weasel and his adult father, both of whom I do not even know; what, if any, ramifications does this have on the division of the house I still co-own with the ex and has my ex forfeited her rights to alimony or any kind of spousal support as of having married a new provider, etc?
Could it get any weirder than this? Oh, yeah, but I don't even want to go there.
Any observations would be welcomed.