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#773433 - 05/12/17 06:38 PM Is it too late to turn back time?
turnbacktime Offline
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We have been married for less than 4 years.. I love her very much but I believe she is mentally/verbally abusive. We have been struggling and I know it isn't all her fault. We are a blended family with 5 kids. Her 3 kids are younger but EXTREMELY disrespectful and mouth off constantly. 75% of the time she doesn't say anything. It is really hard to deal with them. When she gets mad and we argue she says things like.. "you are worthless, you're pathetic, everyone hates, you're an embarrassment, you disgust me, no one would miss you, I F'n hate you, You don't matter to anyone" There are many more things she has said and a lot of times she says the stuff in front of the kids. She constantly belittles me in front of the kids and of course she is controlling and NEVER wrong. I get up at 5:30am and don't get home from work until 4:15pm. She doesn't work but yet always says I'm lazy.. But I come home most of the time from work and I have to cook dinner. I really love the girl but it's tough when she says the things she does about me and my kids. On top of dealing with my ex who assaulted my daughter while together with my current wife, her ex husband going to jail.. I mean it's like a jerry springer show! So that stress doesn't help matters :(
I just don't want my life to only be this.. she won't go to counseling cause "there is nothing a counselor can tell me that I don't already know" I just don't know what to do..


Edited by turnbacktime (05/12/17 06:40 PM)

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#773434 - 05/13/17 07:53 AM Re: Is it too late to turn back time? [Re: turnbacktime]
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Run as fast as you can. I would never stay in an abusive relationship. Don't kid yourself. Your wife is an abuser.

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#773436 - 05/13/17 02:32 PM Re: Is it too late to turn back time? [Re: turnbacktime]
matilda Offline
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You need to go to an attorney and get a free consultation. You need to realize that the longer you stay in this relationship the more you have to lose. Once you get more information you will hopefully have a better understanding of what you need to do. If you continue this marriage you will be paying spousal support for a longer period of time because she isn't working.

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#773644 - 06/04/17 10:13 PM Re: Is it too late to turn back time? [Re: turnbacktime]
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If someone talks like that to you, I would find someone else. You might love her, but it seems she doesn't know how to love you. It's not worth being in an abusive relationship. You do all the work and she is just using you. Like Matilda says, get an attorney and assess what it would take to leave.
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#773660 - 06/11/17 02:00 AM THE TESTIMONY ON HOW I GET MY HUSBAND BACK [Re: turnbacktime]
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I never believe or thought there was any real spell caster friends, until i meet the great prophet LUBA who help me get my ex husband back after he dumped me and my two kids while i was pregnant for seven years and ran away with another woman.One day as i was reading an article on line,just the way you will be reading mine now,I came across a great testimony of a woman called TERESA,Her problem was similar to mine but the only difference was that his husband left her after she got her third miscarriage for two years,leaving her in total sorrow and agony, until a friend introduced her to the great LUBA who help her get his husband back.so i took the email of prophet LUBA she left down and sent LUBA my problem and he did message me back,he gave me a form which i filled and sent to him,he told me he will get back to me the next day and throughly he did, he bought a list of the items i will buy for my prayers,and i bought it,LUBA told me between now till 24 hours my husband will call me and start begging me will should come back.At first friend i thought he was just kidding me and i did not take it serious.To my greatest surprise,i went to visit my grand parents with my kids when an unknown number called me and i did not hesitate to pick it up,behold friends all what i could hear was someone crying and begging me,and i said who is this he reply WAYNE your lovely husband and he started begging me to forgive him which i did because he is the father of my three kids and moreover he is the only man i cherish and i am deeply in love with him.AS i speak to you right now,i am conceived and expecting our fourth kid.Indeed prophet LUBA is strong and powerful,All hail him.The reason i am sharing this great testimony is that,I strongly believe someone out there need it and i can also be a blessing to him by saving his or her marriage back.No problem is bigger than the great LUBA of our time.I will recommend any one with similar problem or any kinds of problem to the great PROPHET LUBA OF OUR TIME. You can email him friends via his private address [email protected] friends note that his spell are free,as The great LUBA do not use to ask for money after he solved your solution,All luba tells you after he solved your problem is that,you should go and testify his miraculous works in your life to the world like the way i am doing right now.friends remember a saying that says the difference between ordinary and extra ordinary is the extra,so makes extra effort friend to save your marriage/relationship if it is truly worth it and you are in love.

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