I am sure others have dealt with this...Well my STBX filed an RFO for Custody in CA.

He begged for and was granted overnight visitation and joint legal custody. I have sole physical custody. The visitation schedule is what HE requested. However, he is not abiding by the order.

Can I start billing him for babysitting services required on his visitation days?Because I need help and am thinking about hiring a nanny/helper.

I agreed to an alternate schedule outside of court, just so he can help out more and see his kid more. But, that schedule isn't 50/50 which is what I am looking for. Its like 95/5. All he does is drop off our kid to school, and one pickup (which I had to argue with him to do).