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Table Of Contents Foreword, by Diane Yule, JD Beginning Verses The Journey Part One: The Disposable Dad A hole in the heart, Crazy-making, The money trap, From bad to worse, Descent into despair, The Outcast Part Two: An Eye-Opener No way, we won't pay, The alternatives, Equality vs. one-up/one-down, Abuse and violence, The longing Part Three: Resolve and Wisdom Like facing death, We all need support, Victim no more, Something is changing, Empowerment, Settle or fight, A moral compass Part Four: Divorce-Fathering Focus on the Child , Loyalty conflicts, Conflicts with the child, Part Five: Toward Peace Conflicts with Jane, The unseen mother, Seeing the deadbeat, Peace, About the journey, from farther shore Appendix: Excerpts from the Reports of the U.S. Commision on Child and Family Welfare Notes and references Resources Acknowledgments Close Window