[quote=hippie1981]Verbal abuse is still abuse. It doesn't leave physical scars but it leaves emotional ones. You and your son should get counseling to deal with the turmoil that your husband is inflicting. Try to get him to go too, but abusers often don't think they have a problem.
I'm not sure what you mean by is there anything you can do? Are you afraid that the verbal abuse will escalate into physical abuse? If so, you might want to contact a women's shelter and figure out an escape plan if it ever does happen.
Are you wanting to divorce him b/c of this? Verbal abuse falls under extreme cruelty if you're in a "fault" state.
Good luck and I hope everything turns out ok.[/quote]
I agree with you.