What can i expect at our hearing?
---> You can expect a fight.
---> First of all, alimony is NOT meant to maintain the SOL for the children...that is what child support is for.
---> Second, she has had SIX YEARS in which to "better" herself, to become self-sufficinet...which was the purpose of her receiving it. It was HER choice to NOT make any effort and thus you should NOT be held accountable OR responsible for HER choice. THAT is the point your attorney needs to make.
---> She also needs to be held responsible for her own attorney's fees.
If you air your dirty linen in public, expect people to comment on the skid marks!