So tell me then why isn't my husband ordered to pay extra's that you demand? He is required to pay 1/2 medical, but with tricare there are no copays, so if mom chooses not to use his court ordered insurance, she has to pay full costs. The only thing ordered is 1/2 braces, but she doesn't want to pay her share, so no braces (we were willing ot pay cash up front). No child care was ordered either!
Child support and a parent cheating on each other have nothing to do with each other! And, if a CP had common sense, they know throughout a marriage not to rely on another person to financially provide for their child - if they get the help, great, if not, do what you need to do and support your child.
So, in come cases depending on the state, it is ordered, but in others, many I know of, it is a flat rate and that is it in less the NCP chooses to do more.