And what makes you think he has to support this handicapped child? Do you know for a fact, that Bm does not recieve CS? Do you know for a fact that she does not collect a disability check or medicaid for her D? Do you know for a fact that the BD does not have her covered on his insurance? I guess they lived in a cardboard box before she hooked up with your EX? I guess her address before she met your H, #3, cardboard box, under the overpass, next to the sewage treatment plant. I don't think you give this woman much credit? She is a very strong lady, mentally and physically, quit giving her the title of a GOLD DIGGING [censored]! Seems she has a job! No? Her D is very well taken care of? No? That's like calling all single mom's, Gold Diggers. Some of us do make our own money and support our kids just fine. Did you ever think that maybe, they like each other for who they are?