Look for my response line for line:
My son lives with his dad.
Good, at least he lives with one of you.
Everyday from the time he gets his homework done to the time he goes to bed he makes him clean his room.
He's being taught the value of hard work and the necessity to be cleanly.
His dad will mess it up on purpose just to make him clean it over again. Even at 10:00 at night.
I don't believe you or your son, prove it, oh, that's right you don't live there.
He doesnt even make him anything to eat.
Another life skill learned.
He makes my son do all for himself.
I am almost to the point where I want to kiss your x-husband.
Would this be enough for a judge to award me custody?
What attributes have you displayed, so far you have only shown your ignorance.
He is 11. My son cries about going home and says he never spends time with him. I know I would have a battle!
You betcha it would be a battle, by the time your son is 15 you might have an answer from the courts, and I'll bet you will have spent $30k.