Thanks Maury and googledad for you responses. I have looked at the Wis Legislature page; just doesn't give me the information for the issues that concern me right now. For example if the marriage is void or voidable, can someone come after me for the medical insurance benefits paid out on my behaft over the 4+ years I was married? I called the IRS and they said I have to amend every tax form filed during those years. The home was mine before we "married", but when we refinanced his name was added to the deed. He has not helped with mortgage payment or anything else for over nine months. I really don't have the money to go lawyer shopping.
I think I will call the ethics board myself. That was a really good suggestion. I tend to be a little naive I guess.
Thanks again for your help