Start Your Divorce Today - Premium Divorce Online

Page 1 of 2 1 2 >
Topic Options
#200494 - 03/02/07 02:05 AM can someone explain this?
katiefedup Offline
Carpal \'Tunnel

Registered: 10/27/05
Posts: 11669
Ex had a "HEARING RE SENTENCING ON CONTEMPT" yesterday. This happens about every 70 days. In July he was found guilty and pled guilty to 14 counts of contempt. Everytime he goes for the sentencing hearing he produces a money order for 700.00 and they say thank you and let him go. Anyway, since he started paying in July he has missed 2 months and has not paid one penny ($50) ordered on the arrears monthly. How come they just let him go? Today they said that the court will review his progress in the future but no date was set. Why? Why? Why? Out of the 8 months since he started paying he has already missed 2 months. errrrrrr

Top
#200495 - 03/02/07 02:59 AM Re: can someone explain this? [Re: katiefedup]
Dee78 Offline
Carpal \'Tunnel

Registered: 06/02/05
Posts: 11820
Loc: TN
That is frustrating. I guess they figure something is better than nothing.

Top
#200496 - 03/02/07 04:01 AM Re: can someone explain this? [Re: katiefedup]
agui667 Offline
Carpal \'Tunnel

Registered: 10/23/06
Posts: 4497
BTDT

Top
#200497 - 03/02/07 04:23 AM Re: can someone explain this? [Re: agui667]
googledad Offline
Carpal \'Tunnel

Registered: 12/31/05
Posts: 10213
CA has some really lame enforcement techniques . Are his wages garnished ? No driver's liscense suspension ? The one and only time I filed contempt on my ex the judge offered her a 6 month free vacation at the cinderblock hotel .
_________________________
Careful. We don't want to learn from this.

Top
#200498 - 03/02/07 04:28 AM Re: can someone explain this? [Re: googledad]
katiefedup Offline
Carpal \'Tunnel

Registered: 10/27/05
Posts: 11669
He works under the table and they have already taken his DL, about 4 years ago. I don't understand why they haven't filed more contempt charges. In the end he is the winner!

Top
#200499 - 03/02/07 04:40 AM Re: can someone explain this? [Re: katiefedup]
googledad Offline
Carpal \'Tunnel

Registered: 12/31/05
Posts: 10213
Did you read the state statutes on civil contempt for failure to pay CS ? Does he own any property ?
_________________________
Careful. We don't want to learn from this.

Top
#200500 - 03/02/07 04:43 AM Re: can someone explain this? [Re: googledad]
googledad Offline
Carpal \'Tunnel

Registered: 12/31/05
Posts: 10213
Have you tried any of the private CS collection agencies ? It might not be much comfort to you now but eventually he will pay if he wants some semblence of a normal life .
_________________________
Careful. We don't want to learn from this.

Top
#200501 - 03/02/07 04:51 AM Re: can someone explain this? [Re: googledad]
katiefedup Offline
Carpal \'Tunnel

Registered: 10/27/05
Posts: 11669
he thinks this is normal life! oh well something is better than nothing. I just can't stand the fact if I don't pay a parking ticket, I could be without a job~

Top
#200502 - 03/02/07 05:00 AM Re: can someone explain this? [Re: katiefedup]
googledad Offline
Carpal \'Tunnel

Registered: 12/31/05
Posts: 10213
You might think it odd after dealing with him , but there is nothing wrong with having standards of behavior for your own life . He's still exerting control over you with his failure to live up to his responsibilies . If you obsess on this stuff it will drive you nuts so try to enjoy the good ( the kids ) and ignore the bad ( him ) .
_________________________
Careful. We don't want to learn from this.

Top
#200503 - 03/02/07 05:02 AM Re: can someone explain this? [Re: googledad]
katiefedup Offline
Carpal \'Tunnel

Registered: 10/27/05
Posts: 11669
I know, but it is hard to ingnore 200,000 dollars

Top
#200504 - 03/02/07 05:05 AM Re: can someone explain this? [Re: katiefedup]
googledad Offline
Carpal \'Tunnel

Registered: 12/31/05
Posts: 10213
That would be hard to ignore . How about considering it a FUTURE winning lottery ticket ? Damn , gasp , are we actually having a civil discussion ?
_________________________
Careful. We don't want to learn from this.

Top
#200505 - 03/02/07 05:11 AM Re: can someone explain this? [Re: googledad]
katiefedup Offline
Carpal \'Tunnel

Registered: 10/27/05
Posts: 11669
lol

Top
#200506 - 03/02/07 05:22 AM Re: can someone explain this? [Re: katiefedup]
googledad Offline
Carpal \'Tunnel

Registered: 12/31/05
Posts: 10213
In California, it is illegal to trip horses for entertainment


Nihil est--In vita priore ego imperator romanus fui - That's nothing--in a previous life I was a Roman Emperor
_________________________
Careful. We don't want to learn from this.

Top
#200507 - 03/02/07 01:30 PM Re: can someone explain this? [Re: katiefedup]
tsl Offline
Pooh-Bah

Registered: 06/24/04
Posts: 2274
See if they'll bring him in once a month! Then you'll get a check monthly!!!!
_________________________
Duct tape can't fix stupid but it can keep them out of the way."

Top
#200508 - 03/02/07 03:59 PM Re: can someone explain this? [Re: tsl]
katiefedup Offline
Carpal \'Tunnel

Registered: 10/27/05
Posts: 11669
except he only goes to court every 2 or 3 months

Top
#200509 - 03/02/07 05:51 PM Re: can someone explain this? [Re: katiefedup]
almostheaven Offline
Carpal \'Tunnel

Registered: 07/14/04
Posts: 10468
Loc: West Virginia
You need to be there and point it out to the court. Do they even know? They only know what they see. He's producing a money order, so they see he's paying.
_________________________
Char Fox

Top
#200510 - 03/02/07 05:53 PM Yes, you are... [Re: googledad]
almostheaven Offline
Carpal \'Tunnel

Registered: 07/14/04
Posts: 10468
Loc: West Virginia
And you didn't even cut and paste anything.

:P

Couldn't resist.

Now speak some more Latin baby!
_________________________
Char Fox

Top
#200511 - 03/02/07 06:43 PM Re: Yes, you are... [Re: almostheaven]
googledad Offline
Carpal \'Tunnel

Registered: 12/31/05
Posts: 10213
Clamo, clamatis, omnes clamamus pro glace lactis
_________________________
Careful. We don't want to learn from this.

Top
#200512 - 03/02/07 11:33 PM Re: Yes, you are... [Re: googledad]
almostheaven Offline
Carpal \'Tunnel

Registered: 07/14/04
Posts: 10468
Loc: West Virginia
Make mine butter pecan.
_________________________
Char Fox

Top
Page 1 of 2 1 2 >

Moderator:  dsAdmin 


Resources & Tools
Start Your Divorce Online Start Your Divorce
Several Options to Get Started Today.
Divorce Tools Online Divorce Tools
Keeping it Simple to Get the Job Done.
Divorce Downloads Download Center
Instantly Download Books, Guides & Forms.
Divorce and Custody Books Discount Books
Over 100 of the Best Divorce & Custody Books.
Negotiate Online Negotiate Online
Settle your Divorce and Save.
Custody and Support Tracking Custody Scheduling
Make Sure You Document Everything.

Easily Connect With a Lawyer or Mediator
Have Divorce Professionals from Your Area Contact You!
Enter Your Zip Code: