The attorney stbx fired is a drinking buddy of his... the new one told mine that stbx had not been paying the old attorney very much. Don't know how new would know, unless he asked, or stbx brought it up when new one mentioned retainer and fees.
Stbx thought he had it all figured out, handed me dissolution papers he had prepared at the time he told me he was leaving. Of course he totally ignored what the laws are regarding marital assets and the division of them. He must have thought I would fall for that.... he was so wrong.
Divorce has to become final at some point right? It can't possibly go on like this forever can it? Some days I think I have died, gone to hell and this will be my eternity. Has been over 3 years since stbx left. The up side is that I am a lot stronger and now have the attitude that I am glad he left.
"Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened".