-----> Not saying he is not in the "bad" for not paying all that time, but I am with Cassie on this one. That is an impossible amount to pay off.
And? Who's fault is it that its impossible? So freaking what?! My sister was told by the government that she'll NEVER be able to pay off all her student loans in her lifetime. And? Do you think they're going to stop applying interest? Hell no! She owes it, she knew the terms, SHE chose to get that far behind, to keep defaulting and deferring. SHE made the choice, SHE will face the consequences. She owns her house. So when she dies, her children are not going to get that house. No. The government will. Maybe it will or maybe it won't pay back all she borrowed/accrued. But she deserves no, and is getting no, breaks.
>>>>>There is no doin that with CS. There is no CS bankruptcy. There is no "taking the child away" and "auctioned off".
Because children aren't property. They're PEOPLE. And when one makes a choice to have them, they'd best be prepared to support them, or face consequences of not doing so. His consequence was that because he allowed this to accumulate for so many years, that he now has to pay DOUBLE his CS just to start getting the balance down. Well phooey for him. I guess actions/inactions DO have consequences. Although I realize in today's world that most people think consequences should be forgotten at certain points and that not everyone should be held accountable for what they do. Its just today's mentality I guess. :(