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#225331 - 05/06/07 04:02 PM Re: The one I've been using starts with an "I"... [Re: almostheaven]
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[quote]You know you should never argue with a one-armed idiot, dontcha. Come talk with those of us who understand basic English. ;) [/quote]

But I don't know how to speak English...only read and write.

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#225332 - 05/06/07 04:03 PM Re: This gets better and better... [Re: almostheaven]
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[quote]I'd go her one better. My grandmother just died last month. She and grandpa were married SIXTY SEVEN years. [/quote]

Now that is true love...and a lotta hard work.

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#225333 - 05/06/07 04:07 PM Re: The one I've been using starts with an "I"... [Re: nrvouswrk]
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[quote]Ah ha. All the facts I have posted backed up my posts. No rebuttul HMMMMMM? That's okay. You will see the changes to TANF real soon.
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You have posted that clients will have to work a certain amount of time before receiving benefits, etc, etc. The whole goal of TANF/CalWorks is to make cleints self sufficient. That has NEVER changed. That is what is being done now.

You seem to have this notion that something NEW is going to take place that isn't now. Not so. They will still have to do job searches just like now for the first four weeks and participate with case managers to find jobs. Very few will on the first few days after they have applied. We will not be holding onto their benifits until they work. All they will be doing is job searching in order to GET a job.

In California, this whole thing is addressed in AB 1808. If you read that, you will see that the specifics you have been spouting for the last few days are just not there.

As for TANF going bye-bye....For every person who gets off aid, at least two more will come in to take their place. [/quote]

OK but, the regulations have not been updated in any state because the chnages do not take effect until October 1st, and the state needs to wait or the public will not be getting the corerct info.

TANF cases declined by 75% in 1996 after Welfare Reform. This new program (DRA) is intended to do the same thing as what happened in 1996. You are right about the clients having to work before getting a check. Now they don't need a job to get a check.

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#225334 - 05/06/07 04:09 PM Re: The one I've been using starts with an "I"... [Re: almostheaven]
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[quote]I don't think it would matter WHERE she gets her material. As long as she keeps misinterpretting the material itself, she'll remain forever hopeless...and clueless. [/quote]

DRA is clearly intended to reduce the TANF caseloads. Do some research, you will see.

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#225335 - 05/06/07 04:11 PM Re: The one I've been using starts with an "I"... [Re: almostheaven]
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[quote]That prompted me to peek. No, she hasn't started a thread, just started a couple arguments here and on step family. Seems she has this burning idea about SAHPs, and just about every other subject which she rarely knows anything about. [/quote]

I started a thread a couple of months ago on the Illinois board. Go read it. It is interesting.

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#225336 - 05/06/07 04:18 PM Re: I agree with you preemiemom [Re: Melody]
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[quote]I got my MIS degree 5 years ago and when my ex took me for a reduction, he felt I should be earning over $100K right out of school. His lawyer insisted on one of those expensive employment specialists to evaluate my education and skills to determine exactly what I would be capable of earning upon graduation...and the funny thing was...with the dot com bust, there were waaaaayyyy too many IT and MIS professionals with YEARS of experience out there ready and available. The best a new recruit like myself could hope for right out of school was just about the same as what my first year teaching job offered....and it wasn't anywhere NEAR $100K or even $125K...and this is California! [/quote]

My son wants to go to college for computers something or rather. He was looking at the ITT Tech website. I saw some compaints online about the company and how the credits do not transfer to other colleges. So I hope he goes your route and gets an MIS degree.

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#225337 - 05/06/07 04:21 PM Re: "I call the whole tale as BS. " [Re: Grace]
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[quote]It's obvious this thread has gone on long enough, but I had to say. . . heeeyyyyyy, not all of us here in KY are wandering around the barnyard scratching our ass.

To the best of my knowledge, half-witted people are allowed to breed in all states.

Now if you'll excuse me, I have a chicken to pluck. [/quote]
I apologize...I was stereotyping people in the South which I know is not true at all. Heck, I love George W. (I am not being at all sarcastic.) I believe in God, Country, Family, and fighting the terrorists. If we don't do it no one will. In fact I want to move to Texas.

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#225338 - 05/06/07 04:24 PM Re: so you were thankful for your lousy $100 [Re: mommy2boys]
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[quote]Wrong,jealous GF is what caused a deadbeat.Greed on the X and his GF's part created a deadbeat. From the time we seperated until his GF moved in CS was paid, once the GF moved in CS stopped, as well as all communication, phone number changed and he isn't allowed to give it out because it is in GF's name. X's claims he can't support himself, GF and her kid from another man, if he pays his CS, they live rent free. The GF works and he receives about $2600 in disabilty every month. So now the genius and his GF had a baby together a few months ago, if you can't support the 3 you already have why have another one.

Do I think his GF is better than me, NOT! If she was she wouldn't have been living at her parents house with 1st kid since the child was born, whose father (her HUSBAND) is in prison for drugs, had her daughter removed from her care by CPS because she was on drugs and arrested for writing her own prescriptions for Vicodan, forced into rehab by the courts to get her child back. I have absolutely nothing to be jealous of, sorry! [/quote]

I can totally understand your side. I am a SM. Then only reason I want nothing to do with BM is because she has told me she wanted to make my life a living hell. Why? Why would she say that. Doesn't she care that her child will be coming to my home and that she should be nice to me so that I in turm do not have negative feelings when she comes to my home?

But I can imagine how hard it is to be a BM who has to send her child away to someone else's house. I don't know I could do that.

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#225339 - 05/06/07 04:27 PM Re: I wasn't complaing, Bozo [Re: Melody]
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[quote]and regardless of who leaves....someone has to pay support. [/quote]

I agree...but to be upset because you have only received $3500 in 7 months when you should have been paid $4900..that was the point of my original post in this thread. I'm not saying she should not collect the CS, but be thankful he is not a deadbeat, because $3500 is not a deadbeat. A deadbeat is someone who NEVER pays.

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#225340 - 05/06/07 05:06 PM Re: God blessed freaking IDIOT! [Re: joym525]
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You are a moron... the line you are quoting from goes WITH the line directly ABOVE IT!!!!

Everyone else here can read it correctly why can't you? Besides, we can't seem to keep track of whatever the heck state you're in now. Tennesee, Nevada, Illinois, wanna move to Texas. Good grief....

by the way, I did find your SOLE initiated thread on the Illinois board.

It's in their court order you idiot, YES he is obligated to pay for college. You state in your posting it says so in their order.. so what the heck is the argument about? I guess it's unfortunate for him that his baby mamma didn't possess the same lack of class you do and get someone else to be responsible for his kid.

However, as you post, the child is 18 so your troubles should soon be over and your knight in shining armour can be fully financially dedicated to ponying up the dollars for YOUR b-tard child.

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