I wasn't the one who chose divorce and would have welcomed the chance to try to work things out. He didn't want to. It ended up being a blessing in disguise because 4 years later he was arrested and plead guilty to possession of child p0rn. I'd have never made it through that. Basically what I'd have done was hang on for 4 more years and wasted that time. (not that I've done great things with it anyway) I think in the end I'd have been very resentful of sticking with it. At least now I can honestly say that it wasn't happening while we were together and I had no way of knowing it was happening.
When we were together, you said you'd die for me. Now, I think it's time you kept your promise.