**I submitted this in another forum as well but I'm hoping to reach as many people that may have information as possible**I submitted a post about a year ago because my fiance's ex-wife was getting married to someone in the military and we were concerned about the possibilities involved with relocation. The problem was that we were already in a different state (we live in NC and they lived in MD at the time). Since then, she has moved to GA which is much closer and we're just starting to get into the grove of seeing the kids on a monthly basis. Now, they are already moving again, less than a year later, to CA which is a 3 hour time zone difference and a really long flight. She has expressed that she would permit them to fly now (she has not permitted this in the past when we wanted them to fly between NC and MD). However, although I thought a 1hr flight between NC and MD was reasonable, I have concerns about them being on an airplane for four or more hours without one of us. With all of that said, we are trying to figure out what our options are. Any suggestions?