My ex is the primary custodian and our 16yr old has proven to be too much for her to handle. We have mediation on the 31st and so she is going to let him move in with me for a trial period until the mediation and the courts decide. So she has written a note saying that we both are in agreement BUT she also wrote that he can not get his driver license back, a car and cannot work.
This was HER punishment to him, taking away his licences and work permit. I don't have to agree to that do I?
My question is this, even if I sign that note, is it still binding? It is my understanding that if my son is living with me she has no say so if he works or has a licenses. That is HER punishement to him but not mine. I can't inforce punishment on the children when they are in her care, so she can't do that when he is living with me can she? If she is letting him move in with me until the hearing, she no longer has primary custodial rights ie. punishments etc.