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#606549 - 02/04/10 06:09 PM Re: Bonus payout [Re: JennyLynn]
1966Gal Offline
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That's what I was thinking too. If that's the case, it doesn't matter what she is making or if she changed jobs.

The only thing that matters is him providing proof of his bonus, whether he got one or not.
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#606550 - 02/04/10 06:09 PM Re: Bonus payout [Re: JennyLynn]
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[quote]Actually, at least here - the majority of court orders give each parent permission to see the other person's W2 and tax returns upon request. [/quote]

Nothing but PURE nosiness! Nosy, nosy, nosy.
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#606551 - 02/04/10 06:15 PM Re: Bonus payout [Re: Avaya]
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&lt;&lt;Nothing but PURE nosiness! Nosy, nosy, nosy.
&gt;&gt;

Actually it has nothing to do with nosiness. Courts don't order things just out of nosiness. And even so? Heck, I'm nosey - I'll admit it. But no - it isn't about being NOSEY, it's about parents being HONEST about their income in order to calculate CS.


Edited by JennyLynn (02/04/10 06:15 PM)

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#606552 - 02/04/10 06:17 PM Re: Bonus payout [Re: JennyLynn]
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"Is that a state law that CS can only be revisited every 3 years?"
No, NH allows for mods every 3 years OR if there has been a significant change in circumstances. A new job can qualify as a SCIC, provided there is a change in pay.

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#606553 - 02/04/10 07:57 PM Re: Bonus payout [Re: JennyLynn]
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&lt;&lt;Nothing but PURE nosiness! Nosy, nosy, nosy.
&gt;&gt;

Actually it has nothing to do with nosiness. Courts don't order things just out of nosiness. And even so? Heck, I'm nosey - I'll admit it. But no - it isn't about being NOSEY, it's about parents being HONEST about their income in order to calculate CS.

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I only agree with that if they are BOTH ordered to show their income. H was ordered to show his W2, but BM wasn't. How fair is that? I think it could fall on the side of nosy when the expectation isn't equally shared, in a state where incomes of both are taken into account.

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#606554 - 02/04/10 07:58 PM Re: Bonus payout [Re: Cassie23]
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Oh I totally agree Cassie.

XH and I are BOTH ordered so submit ours to each other upon request, and we live in an income shared state.


Edited by JennyLynn (02/04/10 07:59 PM)

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#606555 - 02/04/10 08:06 PM Re: Bonus payout [Re: JennyLynn]
Cassie23 Offline
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I knew you were. I just wonder if that is the case with this guy? Is his X CO'ed to show how much bonus she received this year?

Sucks to have to pay a percentage of your bonus, straight out. I think Yes_Dad had to do the same, in his state of IL.

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#606556 - 02/04/10 08:07 PM Re: Bonus payout [Re: Cassie23]
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&lt;&lt;Sucks to have to pay a percentage of your bonus, straight out&gt;&gt;

I agree. I don't know why it wouldn't just be averaged out in the monthly CS payments. Guess that's how they do it there :).


&lt;&lt;I just wonder if that is the case with this guy? Is his X CO'ed to show how much bonus she received this year?&gt;&gt;

--If he's required to, I agree she should be as well.

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#606557 - 02/04/10 08:23 PM Re: Bonus payout [Re: JennyLynn]
Cassie23 Offline
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Well my guess is he had a crappy mediator who made sure it was like that for his XW (to get copies), but not him.

He needs to go back and this time with a lawyer. I was soooo surprised on all the things my brother's X was getting away with through their mediator. It wasn't until I brought up a few things, and he mentioned it to his mediator that things changed.

Oh BTW, my brother's X is taking him back to court because she wants more money now- 6 months after their CO. She no longer has a job (she quit) and my brother actually makes less now, but sold his house.

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#606558 - 02/04/10 08:24 PM Re: Bonus payout [Re: Cassie23]
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This man pays $1500 per month in CS on a 50/50 arrangement - IMO it doesn't Matter HOW much money he makes - obviously he's taking care of his children financially and his income should NOT be scrutinized and the amount certainly shouldn't be available to the other parent.
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