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#606679 - 02/08/10 05:11 PM Re: Bonus payout [Re: Cassie23]
Cassie23 Offline
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Edited by Cassie23 (02/08/10 05:11 PM)

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#606680 - 02/08/10 05:11 PM Re: Bonus payout [Re: Sherron]
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So in your world, I shouldn't get remarried as long as I have children living with me? Btw... how fair would your plan be to MY kids? The house I live in is all ds's ever known, we moved in when he was one.
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It would be very fair. DS would never leave his home. YOu and your ex would come and go and contriubte 50/50 to the your DS's home.

You are fine to get remarried as long as your commitment to your existing children isn't altered.
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#606681 - 02/08/10 05:12 PM Re: Bonus payout [Re: Cassie23]
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&lt;&lt;She brings in $92500 while first H who was making $100k, has $65k. Yeah some people could make a pretty sweet living off this kind of deal :) &gt;&gt;

That's crazy.

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#606682 - 02/08/10 05:12 PM Re: Bonus payout [Re: 1966Gal]
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&lt;&lt;You are fine to get remarried as long as your commitment to your existing children isn't altered.
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And who decides what alters my child's life? You?

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#606683 - 02/08/10 05:13 PM Re: Bonus payout [Re: JennyLynn]
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Yeah I deleted it, because there would have to be a way to neutralize the cost with each new household. HOW it could be done, but would be a HUGE PITA, and would keep changing with each new Dad. LOL

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#606684 - 02/08/10 05:14 PM Re: Bonus payout [Re: 1966Gal]
Sherron Offline
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"You are fine to get remarried as long as your commitment to your existing children isn't altered. "

Doesn't divorce by default alter the commitment to exisiting children?

Are you telling me that you and Ray would move out of your house every other week so your ex can stay there? What about Ray's kids? Funny, but it seems to me that you're not living this plan yourself.

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#606685 - 02/08/10 05:14 PM Re: Bonus payout [Re: JennyLynn]
Cassie23 Offline
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Thing is I get what Gal is saying and if you have 2 parents willing to do that, I understand it. YET forcing it, would be ridiculous. Mine as well just force them to remain married and BOTH living in the same household ;)

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#606686 - 02/08/10 05:17 PM Re: Bonus payout [Re: Cassie23]
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Exactly. I find nothing wrong with that kind of a situation - but I do NOT think it should be forced.

Can you imagine if my X was forced to have 50/50 and we were forced to share a home? No. Not gona happen. That would NOT be good for my son.

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#606687 - 02/08/10 05:22 PM Re: Bonus payout [Re: 1966Gal]
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[quote]If neither parent were "greedy" that is what they would want for their kids, so the kids could have as consistent lifestyle as possible. [/quote]

And what happens after the kids are grown? They're forced to see the lower wage earner slip into a lower standard of living. Susan, it's just not right - AND it feeds the problem with men earning less than their potential when they know their efforts wont benefit them, it'll benefit their former spouse that can't/wont/doesn't earn as much as they do. AND if the recipient spouse marries a billionaire, that isn't factored into CS, therefore the recipient is receiving $$ to supposedly equalize the standard of living when in fact it's not affecting the receiving standard AT ALL while diminishing the paying person's standard of living.
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#606688 - 02/08/10 05:24 PM Re: Bonus payout [Re: JennyLynn]
Sherron Offline
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"Can you imagine if my X was forced to have 50/50 and we were forced to share a home? No. Not gona happen. That would NOT be good for my son. "
Forget about ds for a second. Do you not have a right to move on, have more kids with SO? According to Susan's plan, you couldn't, unless you were okay shuffeling kid#2 around EOW. It seems it's okay to do that to kid#2, but not kid#1.

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