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#609245 - 02/12/10 04:08 AM She had an affair - I'm in a hotel - what's up?
44yroldman Offline

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Registered: 02/11/10
Posts: 1
Loc: NC
I got the confession just before Christmas, six week deal with the contractor. Tried to work it out then she admits seeing him again. I'm in a Hotel and filing separation. 19 year marriage, 2 kids, the affair is way,way out of character for my wife.

Question: why can't I feel anything? It's been two days since the second bomb but I'm like iceman over here. I have not even gotten angry (just frozen like a robot) - any tips on how to get feelings unlocked?

#609246 - 02/13/10 12:13 AM Re: She had an affair - I'm in a hotel - what's up? [Re: 44yroldman]
Atlas Offline


Registered: 11/03/09
Posts: 80
You're still in shock. Give it time -- it will come. You've got plenty of pain and misery coming your way -- enjoy the calm before the storm while it lasts.


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