Husband has filed divorce papers, our 10th anniversary is today. His attorney told mine that they weren't going to serve them since I am 150 miles away, my attorney is 100 miles away. Long story short: He talked about "maybe" wanting divorce July 19th, for 50 days I used the "Love Dare" with minister friend and attempted to salvage marriage since he did not move out. I left the house Labor Day, he locked up the house with all my stuff and personal belongings. At the end of labor Day he had me served with bogus protective orders and we have court date next week, the 27th. Now he has filed the divorce papers but not serving me so I guess I have to drive up to sign for them? So far everything he and his attorney do cost me money! Can they just file and not have them served????