I have a similar case and my daughter is almost 6. In my opinion she has suffered through our lengthy divorce and I wanted to take her to see counseling. But the counselor (in Virginia) I saw needs both parents to agree before she can see her.
X refused to let me, using excuses like she doesn't want to "tag" my daughter that way.
The fact is, my daughter started to worry about mom when she is with me, after a few nights when she calls mom from my place, mom didn't pick up the phone as she promised, then she asked me to drive her home but couldn't find mom. Since then she refused to come with me.
We have joint legal and X is the primary. Do I need to bring this to court in order to take my daughter to see counselor before it's too late? Would court order some psychological evaluation first?