ok heres my situation. im 21 and legally married for 2 years. ive been with my husband for 6. we have a 3 year old son. he works out of state, and has been gone since august of 2010, coming home for a couple days for the holidays. i was having an affair for the last 6 months. the "other guy" sent explicit pictures and videos , and well,my husband found out. he wants a divorce, which i am not willing to sign. the problem is, the wants to take full custody of our son. he has choked me and physically thrown me around, but i never filed charges. will he be able to take full custody with only the evidence of the pictures? or do i stand a chance in court because he is always gone and is abusive, and not to mention has gone back on drugs. so please all the help is greatly appreciated!