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#748773 - 05/02/12 05:34 PM Medical expenses
momtothreekids Offline

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I am not sure where else to post this.

I pay for all of the children's medical expenses, ex pays for insurance. He refused to give me the EOB's (Explanation of Benefits), but the court ordered him to. When I was given the online access to the EOB's through the insurance website I see why he would not give me access before. Each EOB page shows that he was reimbursed for the amount of money I paid for the co-pays, bills, etc... So when I pay a bill, he was getting the EOB, submitted it to his Flex and getting the money back. I understand that he puts the money in to Flex, but he is getting a tax free withdrawal from that Flex account for monies that I paid. Does that seem legit? I have paid out over $800 of my own money this year so far.

#748774 - 11/29/12 03:37 AM Re: Medical expenses [Re: momtothreekids]
JustShootMeNow Offline

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I know this was posted a long time ago, but I figured I'd answer in case you were still around. Sorry -- your ex is entitled. Nothing wrong with it, because it's his money. Can you set up a flex for yourself? Do you have an employer that offers them?


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