Im so frustrated and angry! My husband has moved his girlfriend into the home we own together. He changed the locks on me, will not allow me to get personal belongings, clothes, etc. The g/f is using the computer that I bought and paid for. Yet, husband says he is still paying on it. Such a lie but all receipts are in the home for purchases I made. I finally after 21 years of verbal, emotional, and sexual abuse, left the home, with clothes on my back and car. I stayed in my moms home, she was diagnosed with cancer, and getting my belongings was the least on my mind. I was trying to take care of her. I was living with a friend after her death since her home was too expensive for me to live in. I had no place for storing items. I finally got an apartment of my own in Jan 2012, asked for my stuff, and he gathered a few items but the rest is still there. My husband will not allow me in my home for my belongings. I have consulted with police and because I left with good reason, police state I have abandoned the home. So they are unable to do civil standby. He dropped my health insurance in December and I have been without since. He refuses to give me petty items such as a scissors. I will be so glad when I can say I'm free!