Yeah, I would not agree to this. What you get paid is subject to change, but her support is not. While you are separated, you are required to support her at a certain level, as directed by the navy, unless there is a court order changing that amount. Your retirement pay is subject to division, unless it is stated in the decree that she is not taking it. She wants that support, and then, after the decree is finalized what is to stop her from going after the division of retirement, as property. Use a child support calculator, for where you filed, to determine the amount of CS. The formula is the formula is the formula. Hard to argue the CS, but the support, yeah, I would be contesting this. It will be worth it, over the long run, to make payments to a lawyer, and have them stop one day, as opposed to paying the ex for the rest of your life.