I am in need of help. A little history, I live in Indiana as does my x husband. Our divorce was final in January 2014. We were married for 21 years, no children. As part of the divorce settlement he is required to pay me a portion of his PERF (Public Employee Retirement Account). He has not paid it and money can not be taken out of that account until he retires. If he dies prior to retirement due to the type of account I get nothing. My divorce attorney at the time of the divorce told me I would have my money right away. I just took my x husband back to court pro se, I did not have an attorney. I filed contempt of court against him. The judge told me my x husband does not have to pay me my settlement because it is a PERF account, the judge even went as far as to say it should have never even been entered into the divorce settlement. The judge advised I get an attorney. I can not afford to pay more attorney fees. My X did have an attorney present and luckily the judge did not order me to pay his attorney fees for the contempt case since I lost.
How can I go about getting my money without an attorney. I can NOT afford an attorney. Everything I've looked up thus far says divorces involving PERF accounts should have a stipulation saying the spouse with the PERF account be required to make payments. Dumb me, I didn't have a good attorney so mine doesn't say that.
What can I do? I simply can not wait until my x husband retires, he probably won't even live that long due to his health conditions and if he dies I won't see a penny.
What other way can I take him to court without an attorney besides filing for contempt?