Hi, friends. My husband is a raging alcoholic and I want out of this nightmare as soon as possible. My mental and physical well-being are at an all time low. He is very difficult to live with in our 950 sq ft condo. He drinks 24/7 and I cannot sleep. I work full time on no sleep at all sometimes. It's effecting my health. I've told him several times that I want a divorce but he does not want one and will not leave. I would like to stay in the condo we share and for him to move and do all his drinking elsewhere. He will always be an alcoholic and I do not wish to stay with him if he tries to get help (again - never works). He is mentally unstable and I'm scared. Lately, because I will not share affection wit him, he has started groping me. Makes me very uncomfortable. Anyway, the condo is in my name. I bought the condo 6 months before we met then he moved in. Against my better judgment, I married him in 2009. In hindsight, he manipulated and me into marriage. His drinking got worse after we married. Thankfully, we do not have children together. I feel like he should be man, cut our losses and get his own place but he won't. He is going to stalk and haunt me the rest of my life. If and when he goes away, and I pray that he does - he will not go away nicely or quietly. I have 4 cats that I adore. I can't move in with friends or family because most are allergic to cats or have animals of their own. I can't move into an apartment because the mortgage and 1 car payment are in my name. I do not think I would qualify for an apartment lease. He drives a car that was mine - it is paid for and in my name. I'm afraid he'll get a DWI or worse that he'll hurt people when he drives drunk to the store to buy more beer. I do not want anyone to die, I do not want to get sued, I do not want my family to get sued becaue I'm married to this unresponsible man. He has a really good job. Makes almost $100k a year. Somehow manages to keep his job as an alcoholic. I do not want anything from him - monetarily or possessions. He can have all the furniture, tv's whatever. I don't want any of his 401k. We already have separate bank accounts. I just want my condo, my cats and my name back. I try to speak to him rationally, calmly, intelligently, lovingly...he just won't get it. I need help.