Hello..I am new to this forum. I have been controlled, verbally and physically abused for 16 years. I filed in 2009, but he won me over...NOT THIS TIME. I have a great attorney and I am starting the process June 27th. I have Crohn's disease and he is just making things worse. He has brainwashed my kids against me and is a super control freak. The physical abuse has stopped, but the mental abuse is extreme. I just want out. We barely have any debt and have 2 kids..13 and 14. We do not speak so I guess he will find out I filed when he gets the papers. It's sad, but there's no alternative. Any advice would be great!