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#772207 - 07/27/16 02:18 PM Can't finish QDRO after 1 1/2 yrs...New Jersey
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Thanks for taking your time for me.
Been divorced for nearly a year and a half. The EX constantly refuses to give her input to finish the last of four QDRO's. Questionable is why the CPA needs any input from the Ex. This last QDRO is a bit complicated because it's based on hours worked during the marriage. Since I worked more hours for the union before the marriage, the lion share goes to me and only a small portion goes to her. And that is why I believe she tries to prevent the final QDRO. The CPA constantly wants her input too what I don't understand if she goes with the guidelines provided by the union and the court order. There is no negotiation, she get's what she is entitled to get. I am a retired Veteran, I need this pension very soon but I can't claim my pension because the QDRO is not finished.

Please, what can I do? I am pro se, so is the Ex.

#773808 - 07/07/17 10:58 PM Re: Can't finish QDRO after 1 1/2 yrs...New Jersey [Re: Captain]
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What input is the CPA looking for? The court order outlines what marital property both are entitled to receive. Have you had difficulty with the other 3 QDROs? Have the other 3 QDROs been accepted by the plan administrators? If you need assistance QDRO could be handled by a paralegal at a more affordable rate. Independent Degreed Paralegal, Notary Public and Member of the National Notary Association with experience in Family law, Real Estate Law and property division. I prepare uncontested divorce documents, QDROs, and division of IRAs. I have 100% acceptance rate with plan administrators. I am not an attorney, and therefore, cannot give legal advice. However, I can prepare the necessary documents along with the tax advantages/disadvantages and then allow you to decide which route you would like to take. Please see my LinkedIn page Flat fee for uncontested divorce document preparation $350. Flat fee for property division document preparation $350.


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