First off i am a female my husband of 25 years has cheated on me with several men and i have found numerous craigslist emails etc grindr account on his phone and ipad. he has denied a lot but each day more and more keeps coming out. I have provided for my family financially throughout the whole marriage he has not worked more than a few months total in the 25 years not due to he cant he just didn't have to and chose not to. i have 3 kids all over 18 so there is no custody issue they have chosen not to see him. I just found out this information a few days ago and i am trying to see what would the outcome be and what to do next.