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#773663 - 06/12/17 01:00 AM Can I do it myself?
Jasmin87 Offline
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Registered: 06/11/17
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I'm the wife, married for almost 8 years, I'm a stay at home mom with two children, and we own a house and a car together,

Can we do it on our own? Or a lawyer is a must? Will I qualify for alimony if I haven't worked since we got married?

I'm not sure where I should start, get a job first? Of just file? Please help.

Thank you.

#773665 - 06/12/17 12:43 PM Re: Can I do it myself? [Re: Jasmin87]
MinnesotaMom Offline

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Registered: 01/05/11
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You might get alimony depending on your state, but it will most likely be short term. Getting a job or training is imperative to your long term financial success. Otherwise, poverty is in your future.

Can you divorce without an attorney? With assets and children, I'd say you would be foolish to attempt it.

#773666 - 06/12/17 01:41 PM Re: Can I do it myself? [Re: MinnesotaMom]
Jasmin87 Offline
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From what I understand lawyers cost thousands and I can't afford that, what are my other options?

#773667 - 06/12/17 04:20 PM Re: Can I do it myself? [Re: Jasmin87]
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Registered: 07/17/15
Posts: 349
If you and your spouse are mostly agreeable or at least in the same ballpark regarding the issues (including property division, custody/parenting, child support, spousal support) you might look at mediation. Many mediators will charge a flat rate of a few thousand dollars to run a few sessions to help you craft an agreement and also do all of the necessary legal paperwork. Much less expensive and probably easier than getting separate attorneys.

#773803 - 07/07/17 09:25 PM Re: Can I do it myself? [Re: Jasmin87]
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Another option is to have a paralegal prepare your documents for you. I am an Independent Degreed Paralegal, Notary Public, Member of the National Notary Association with experience in Real Estate Law and Family Law and Property Division. I prepare documents for uncontested divorces in New York State as well as QDROS and have 100% acceptance rate with plan administrators. I am not an attorney, and therefore, cannot give legal advice. However, I can prepare the necessary documents along with the tax advantages/disadvantages and then allow you to decide which route you would like to take. My LinkedIn page can be found here All uncontested divorce documents flat fee $350. All property division documents flat fee $350.


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