Wife acted like she was stunned even though she had said on many occasions that we should get divorced. She never believed I would divorce her and said it during arguments to shut me up. It worked during the argument but she ended up regretting putting the idea in my head. Advice if you are going to file....copy everything. All documents. Have a voice recorder going any time you are near her. Not your phone. Get items you want out of the house beforehand. If you have kids be a superdad and record all activities in a journal. If you can, pay down debt as far as you possibly can. There is much more but the directions you take depend on your circumstances.